"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to deal with a prude girl?

bigneil

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Who Dares Win said:
We were supposed to meet on friday but didnt ... she is probably still angry at me cause I once did a little flake on her.
2012 Wishful Thinking Award. Man assumes woman would sacrifice date, dinner, sex and happiness to teach man a lesson.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CBguy1983

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I think some "prude" females dont know what they want in a relationship. for example this girl at work. ill admit not the best looking, no super model but me & her had a playful behavior goin on. Some was adult behavior. One night im at my station and she blows me a kiss. Nothing big. But the flirting turned from playful to serious. So one night i asked for her number. She wanted mine instead. But i got to the point and asked her out after a WWE event we were both goin to. So after a friend put doubts in my head i asked her if we were still on. She gave some drawn out speach at the end saying she was a prude. You sure dont act it when i see you. I asked you out cause i wanted to get to know you. Im not the normal guy who thinks sex 24/7. Her behavior doesnt say prude it says she doesnt know what she wants. Shes generally attractive and it doesnt bother me she has a couple kids.
 

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Currently dating my first prude. After multidating a few chicks for a month, she asked me what our "relationship" was. Given that there's been no sex, I was not sure where this was going, but I wanted to try something new after usually f'ing the girl from dates 1-4, so asked her if she wanted to by my "gf". Within a week, she had already bought me a $200 jacket lol. Whereas with my xwife banged her the first time she came to see me and later found out she had 7-8 previous partners.

This one has had 2 bf's previously each 3-4 years in duration; apparently no one-night stands. This will be another adventure in life...

Be interesting to see how long she holds out for. Life is a game.
 

CrimsonPanther

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a girl could have 1000 reasons to not put out. maybe she isn't interested enough, or maybe she is too interested and doesn't wanna screw it up, because you are her first. if you are serious with her, don't screw it up. one time i have waited for a girl for 3 months (in the meantime i had sex with others of course), and when she finally was ready, she was very devout and nice girlfriend who did everything for me and turned out quite the little wild thing in bed. she was reluctant at first because she had no confidence and i was her first, and she needed time to trust me 100%.
 
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