"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to deal with a husband/ex-husband

MadThrasher1851

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Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids and I heard she was going through a divorce. I wasn't sure if it had been settled yet or not, and her myspace page said she was single. So, I figured she was fair game. Well, I sent her a message, a kind of flirty one, and he responds back to me with "hey u little faget ***** this is my wife." Well, I kinda blew it by going all beta and ****. But if he responds again, I wanna just tell him what the deal is and go from there. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? I've gone through this sort of thing before and got all chicken ****, but this time, I'm standing my ground. I just want to know how to deal with it properly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MadThrasher1851 said:
Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids
Pray tell, why are you pursuing her? Do you really think shes gonna be fvcking you any time soon, w/o asking for support?

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These posts about getting with wives, mothers, avoiding ex's has got to stop. It's not beta male behavior, its called being a PUS5Y.
 

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I was just more or less flirting for the purpose of flirting only. Where I work, a lot of the women aren't desirable or whatever. I wasn't planning on anything deeper than flirting, I assure you.
 
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