"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to deal with a husband/ex-husband

MadThrasher1851

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Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids and I heard she was going through a divorce. I wasn't sure if it had been settled yet or not, and her myspace page said she was single. So, I figured she was fair game. Well, I sent her a message, a kind of flirty one, and he responds back to me with "hey u little faget ***** this is my wife." Well, I kinda blew it by going all beta and ****. But if he responds again, I wanna just tell him what the deal is and go from there. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? I've gone through this sort of thing before and got all chicken ****, but this time, I'm standing my ground. I just want to know how to deal with it properly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MadThrasher1851 said:
Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids
Pray tell, why are you pursuing her? Do you really think shes gonna be fvcking you any time soon, w/o asking for support?

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These posts about getting with wives, mothers, avoiding ex's has got to stop. It's not beta male behavior, its called being a PUS5Y.
 

MadThrasher1851

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I was just more or less flirting for the purpose of flirting only. Where I work, a lot of the women aren't desirable or whatever. I wasn't planning on anything deeper than flirting, I assure you.
 
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