"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to deal with a husband/ex-husband

MadThrasher1851

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Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids and I heard she was going through a divorce. I wasn't sure if it had been settled yet or not, and her myspace page said she was single. So, I figured she was fair game. Well, I sent her a message, a kind of flirty one, and he responds back to me with "hey u little faget ***** this is my wife." Well, I kinda blew it by going all beta and ****. But if he responds again, I wanna just tell him what the deal is and go from there. Any suggestions on how to deal with this? I've gone through this sort of thing before and got all chicken ****, but this time, I'm standing my ground. I just want to know how to deal with it properly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MadThrasher1851 said:
Well, I work with this girl who has a couple of kids
Pray tell, why are you pursuing her? Do you really think shes gonna be fvcking you any time soon, w/o asking for support?

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These posts about getting with wives, mothers, avoiding ex's has got to stop. It's not beta male behavior, its called being a PUS5Y.
 

MadThrasher1851

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I was just more or less flirting for the purpose of flirting only. Where I work, a lot of the women aren't desirable or whatever. I wasn't planning on anything deeper than flirting, I assure you.
 
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