"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to deal with a girl whose bull skittin

WeakMenNeverRise

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Fellas, if you ever are in a situation where your chillin with a girl and she's flirting i.e. touching you flirtatiously or flirting in general but she's bullschittin, this is what you do. I did it today and it worked like a charm. Just go from trying to make a move on her to doing absolutely nothing. Just out of the blue start watching tv or something like that. Keep talking to her, lol, i mean don't just ignore her completley but just act like your uninterested in doing anything physical with her anymore. I was on the couch with this chick today and i was making my moves and she was kinda of hesitant so i'm thiking to myself wtf. Then I told her i was hating that i had to fight off my urges to kiss her. After that I sat up, and started watching judge mathis and next thing you know she's like what ever happened to your urges and from that point on it was OVER.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fenderules

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so in other words, you got nothing? lol im kinda confused at what you wrote
 

DeathDealer

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Let me explain this once for the rest of the clueless losers out there.

A girl who wants to be your girlfriend will TRY to be your friend (ie. make plans to hangout or talk about it and actually follows through)

this does not include:

1. her talking to you all the time on the phone, instant message.

2. she tells you where she is conveniently hanging out and wonders if you have time to hang out with her.
 

WeakMenNeverRise

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Yea man, it worked out in the end. Thats why I posted. Death, what are you referring to. I don't know what that has to do with what I posted.
 

DeathDealer

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Dude, I think I was thinking of another post.. dunno why it came here.

WTF?

Oh well.

Well, lemme comment on your post at least... you were anticipating on making a move, girls can see this a mile away... she should anticipate it too.. but you said she was hesistant. You said it was OVER.. .. this girl was bullsh1tting and just enjoyed the attention.

You saw through this quick and smarted up... Girls only play games or hesistant/resist with those they aren't interested in.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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