"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to deal with a girl whose bull skittin

WeakMenNeverRise

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Fellas, if you ever are in a situation where your chillin with a girl and she's flirting i.e. touching you flirtatiously or flirting in general but she's bullschittin, this is what you do. I did it today and it worked like a charm. Just go from trying to make a move on her to doing absolutely nothing. Just out of the blue start watching tv or something like that. Keep talking to her, lol, i mean don't just ignore her completley but just act like your uninterested in doing anything physical with her anymore. I was on the couch with this chick today and i was making my moves and she was kinda of hesitant so i'm thiking to myself wtf. Then I told her i was hating that i had to fight off my urges to kiss her. After that I sat up, and started watching judge mathis and next thing you know she's like what ever happened to your urges and from that point on it was OVER.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Fenderules

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so in other words, you got nothing? lol im kinda confused at what you wrote
 

DeathDealer

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Let me explain this once for the rest of the clueless losers out there.

A girl who wants to be your girlfriend will TRY to be your friend (ie. make plans to hangout or talk about it and actually follows through)

this does not include:

1. her talking to you all the time on the phone, instant message.

2. she tells you where she is conveniently hanging out and wonders if you have time to hang out with her.
 

WeakMenNeverRise

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Yea man, it worked out in the end. Thats why I posted. Death, what are you referring to. I don't know what that has to do with what I posted.
 

DeathDealer

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Dude, I think I was thinking of another post.. dunno why it came here.

WTF?

Oh well.

Well, lemme comment on your post at least... you were anticipating on making a move, girls can see this a mile away... she should anticipate it too.. but you said she was hesistant. You said it was OVER.. .. this girl was bullsh1tting and just enjoyed the attention.

You saw through this quick and smarted up... Girls only play games or hesistant/resist with those they aren't interested in.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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