I have a friend who has been blue pill beta his whole life. He's also been abused physically and emotionally by his parents. he's been in and out of drug rehabs and jail. For a while he was doing well, we ran a record label and had some minor local success. He ended up going blue pill over two bipolar chics back to back which ended up leaving him with a heron addiction.
I had to step away from him then as I had a family and I just couldn't drop by to an apartment full of people snorting and shooting up. Can't be around that stuff.
A few years later he decides to get clean, I take him to the methadone clinic for months. I listen to him rant about his life, his mother and why everything is ****ed up and not his fault. I really start to get sick of it. This is when I was at the lowest point in my adult life. I couldn't handle any more negativity.
He recently started to show signs of schizophrenia and has been diagnosed. Since the meds he's gone down hill. He does nothing all day but smoke weed and watch Netflix and moan about his life. He calls, texts and facebooks me constantly and spews out his emotions in the most unmanly fashion. It's really off-putting.
He constantly tells me that I'm his only friend, he hasn't been laid in 3 years, nobody likes him, his family has all but turned their backs on him. I'm like dude, you are 33 years old. Why are you whining like a ***** all the time, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. He says he can't because of his condition. At one time he was like a brother to me, but I don't know what to do here.
I don't want to wallow in negativity and self pity. I've spent the last few years pulling myself back from the edge and I'm finally getting to the point where I'm happy with the direction my life is going. But the question is, what do I do about my friend? I can't help him. He will not listen. I can't stand to be around him any more. I feel sorry for him because I know it's all true, he has no one. His behavior is off-putting to everyone. He's too intense and only talks about himself non-stop and has nearly no idea what is proper to say in public and what isn't. He has burned all bridges with his family. He is the worst wingman in the world. He has zero game and is now bitter as ****. I've tried to approach him about game and red pill thought...you know just feeling him out. But he still rants how No one will every love him for him, and because of his condition he doesn't deserve love. It's cringe worthy. I wish I could just tell him this line from The Departed.
What would you do?
I had to step away from him then as I had a family and I just couldn't drop by to an apartment full of people snorting and shooting up. Can't be around that stuff.
A few years later he decides to get clean, I take him to the methadone clinic for months. I listen to him rant about his life, his mother and why everything is ****ed up and not his fault. I really start to get sick of it. This is when I was at the lowest point in my adult life. I couldn't handle any more negativity.
He recently started to show signs of schizophrenia and has been diagnosed. Since the meds he's gone down hill. He does nothing all day but smoke weed and watch Netflix and moan about his life. He calls, texts and facebooks me constantly and spews out his emotions in the most unmanly fashion. It's really off-putting.
He constantly tells me that I'm his only friend, he hasn't been laid in 3 years, nobody likes him, his family has all but turned their backs on him. I'm like dude, you are 33 years old. Why are you whining like a ***** all the time, DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. He says he can't because of his condition. At one time he was like a brother to me, but I don't know what to do here.
I don't want to wallow in negativity and self pity. I've spent the last few years pulling myself back from the edge and I'm finally getting to the point where I'm happy with the direction my life is going. But the question is, what do I do about my friend? I can't help him. He will not listen. I can't stand to be around him any more. I feel sorry for him because I know it's all true, he has no one. His behavior is off-putting to everyone. He's too intense and only talks about himself non-stop and has nearly no idea what is proper to say in public and what isn't. He has burned all bridges with his family. He is the worst wingman in the world. He has zero game and is now bitter as ****. I've tried to approach him about game and red pill thought...you know just feeling him out. But he still rants how No one will every love him for him, and because of his condition he doesn't deserve love. It's cringe worthy. I wish I could just tell him this line from The Departed.
What would you do?
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