"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to deal when Ex-Girlfriend is banging new guy?

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Bud_Fox

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Hello players,

This is almost a repeat of my previous question. But how do you deal when you find out your ex is banging a new guy.

I guess the two most obvious responses would be:
1. Go bang a new chick.
2. Hit the gym and let off some steam.

But what other ways do you guys deal with it? Drinking, strip clubs, church/god? Lol

Let me know.

Rock on!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Buddha_Mind

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Man honestly just saving 'fvck that b!tch' and focusing every ounce of energy of pushing that out of the mind and focusing on what you need to do for yourself and your own life.

It's not easy man.
 

McMotherLover

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Masturbate at home like you're prob doing now. Only one thing..... switch it up. Jerk it to what you think she's doing to him.
 

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McMotherLover said:
Masturbate at home like you're prob doing now. Only one thing..... switch it up. Jerk it to what you think she's doing to him.

Dude not cool!!!!
 

roman81

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Bud_Fox said:
Hello players,

This is almost a repeat of my previous question. But how do you deal when you find out your ex is banging a new guy.

I guess the two most obvious responses would be:
1. Go bang a new chick.
2. Hit the gym and let off some steam.

But what other ways do you guys deal with it? Drinking, strip clubs, church/god? Lol

Let me know.

Rock on!


Hit the town with the boys and sarge the bi tch out of your head. As for the rest of the time just concentrate on your self...do stuff that makes you feel good, stuff that gets the endorphins going.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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st_99

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If history is any guide, every time a girl (that i liked) I've been with starting banging a new guy the same old repeatable pattern emerges. Get pissed, get down, get over it, not care, laugh about it, see it as a blessing in disguise when new girl comes..

You'd think we'd eventually learn how the story ends and simply not care from the start.
 

SamTheHobit

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Leporello

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You don't 'deal' with it. It has nothing to do with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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