"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to deal when Ex-Girlfriend is banging new guy?

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Bud_Fox

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Hello players,

This is almost a repeat of my previous question. But how do you deal when you find out your ex is banging a new guy.

I guess the two most obvious responses would be:
1. Go bang a new chick.
2. Hit the gym and let off some steam.

But what other ways do you guys deal with it? Drinking, strip clubs, church/god? Lol

Let me know.

Rock on!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Buddha_Mind

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Man honestly just saving 'fvck that b!tch' and focusing every ounce of energy of pushing that out of the mind and focusing on what you need to do for yourself and your own life.

It's not easy man.
 

McMotherLover

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Masturbate at home like you're prob doing now. Only one thing..... switch it up. Jerk it to what you think she's doing to him.
 

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McMotherLover said:
Masturbate at home like you're prob doing now. Only one thing..... switch it up. Jerk it to what you think she's doing to him.

Dude not cool!!!!
 

roman81

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Bud_Fox said:
Hello players,

This is almost a repeat of my previous question. But how do you deal when you find out your ex is banging a new guy.

I guess the two most obvious responses would be:
1. Go bang a new chick.
2. Hit the gym and let off some steam.

But what other ways do you guys deal with it? Drinking, strip clubs, church/god? Lol

Let me know.

Rock on!


Hit the town with the boys and sarge the bi tch out of your head. As for the rest of the time just concentrate on your self...do stuff that makes you feel good, stuff that gets the endorphins going.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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st_99

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If history is any guide, every time a girl (that i liked) I've been with starting banging a new guy the same old repeatable pattern emerges. Get pissed, get down, get over it, not care, laugh about it, see it as a blessing in disguise when new girl comes..

You'd think we'd eventually learn how the story ends and simply not care from the start.
 

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Leporello

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You don't 'deal' with it. It has nothing to do with you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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