"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't think this is one of those things you can convince your parents lol...he probably think only g@y people do it and if he is a foreign parentshe would be ashamed to have you around with a pierced ear maybe???

you could always get one of those fake ones with a magnet lol if you want it that bad!
 
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my older cousin is one of those guys that didnt need this site to be a "good guy" he has his ear pierced

my dad always says i should be like him a try

so why cant i pierce my ear


the world may nvr noe



and yes my dad is the worlds biggest homophobe
 
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I've got both of mine pierced. I wouldn't say its gay at all. I happen to think it adds another element to my style. Just do it. Whats the worst thats going to happen, he makes you take it out?

My mom was against it until I pierced them myself. Once she saw them, she was suprised, but thought it looked good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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meh...i'm not big into the whole tattoo/piercing thing, not my style. but hey, if it's your thing, go for it i guess.

as far as convincing parents goes, i'd try to make it clear that the piercing is anything but gay and anything but "rebellious," just something to have for looks or personality, whatever works man.
 
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i think i mite just get it pierced on day during winter break that way i can take it out for school (u gotta wait like a month before u take it out) and put it on after

i think most places make u get a parents signature
 
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