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let me pierce(sp?) my ear
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
GaryUranga
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if hes an homophobe he wont, and the reason why it worries homophobes its because its a gay thing to do, if you can pull it off and not look gay then good.
I don't think this is one of those things you can convince your parents lol...he probably think only g@y people do it and if he is a foreign parentshe would be ashamed to have you around with a pierced ear maybe???
you could always get one of those fake ones with a magnet lol if you want it that bad!
you could always get one of those fake ones with a magnet lol if you want it that bad!
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my older cousin is one of those guys that didnt need this site to be a "good guy" he has his ear pierced
my dad always says i should be like him a try
so why cant i pierce my ear
the world may nvr noe
and yes my dad is the worlds biggest homophobe
my dad always says i should be like him a try
so why cant i pierce my ear
the world may nvr noe
and yes my dad is the worlds biggest homophobe
Skilla_Staz
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I've got both of mine pierced. I wouldn't say its gay at all. I happen to think it adds another element to my style. Just do it. Whats the worst thats going to happen, he makes you take it out?
My mom was against it until I pierced them myself. Once she saw them, she was suprised, but thought it looked good.
My mom was against it until I pierced them myself. Once she saw them, she was suprised, but thought it looked good.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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meh...i'm not big into the whole tattoo/piercing thing, not my style. but hey, if it's your thing, go for it i guess.
as far as convincing parents goes, i'd try to make it clear that the piercing is anything but gay and anything but "rebellious," just something to have for looks or personality, whatever works man.
as far as convincing parents goes, i'd try to make it clear that the piercing is anything but gay and anything but "rebellious," just something to have for looks or personality, whatever works man.
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i think i mite just get it pierced on day during winter break that way i can take it out for school (u gotta wait like a month before u take it out) and put it on after
i think most places make u get a parents signature
i think most places make u get a parents signature
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