“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to converse with women on Instagram?

Stephen89

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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

lost_blackbird

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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
 

Travel memoir21

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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
You have a far better shot at a cold approach in your local park than trying to snag an Insta thot.
 

bmp2cpm

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Get out of your home and talk to people. Talk to anyone.

Get a circle of friends and girls will find you.

Stop spending time on endeavors that have a success probability of zero.
 

Young OG

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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
Unless you have a profile with thousands of followers and pics showing you doing tons of fun things, then forget about IG game.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

ColdTony

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I used to DM insta chicks, avails nothing. I ended up dating a woman from Tinder briefly and one day we discovered one of my messages in her DMs from a year prior. She hasn’t even read it then but a year later was madly in love with me via a proper avenue.

Insta DMs are automatic lowering of your value imo.
 
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