"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to converse with women on Instagram?

Stephen89

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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lost_blackbird

Master Don Juan
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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
 

Travel memoir21

Master Don Juan
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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
You have a far better shot at a cold approach in your local park than trying to snag an Insta thot.
 

bmp2cpm

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Get out of your home and talk to people. Talk to anyone.

Get a circle of friends and girls will find you.

Stop spending time on endeavors that have a success probability of zero.
 

Young OG

Master Don Juan
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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
Unless you have a profile with thousands of followers and pics showing you doing tons of fun things, then forget about IG game.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ColdTony

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I used to DM insta chicks, avails nothing. I ended up dating a woman from Tinder briefly and one day we discovered one of my messages in her DMs from a year prior. She hasn’t even read it then but a year later was madly in love with me via a proper avenue.

Insta DMs are automatic lowering of your value imo.
 
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