"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How to converse with women on Instagram?

Stephen89

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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lost_blackbird

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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
 

Travel memoir21

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You know that if they amass enough followers they start getting paid to advertise and
free stuff sent to them? I know an air stewardess who I worked with at Amazon when all
the planes were grounded during covid and she has a nice side hustle going on with
Insta. She's decent looking but it's all makeup, I saw the real her in the warehouse at
Amazon and it's not whats on her Insta. Her job means she gets to be in all sorts of
exotic locations for free and she capitalises on that and endless bikini shots very well.
That's why your 'friend' request was accepted, she won't even look at your profile mate,
you're just another sucker to these type of women. They are after free shoes and bragging
rights amongst their peers, they have blokes tripping over themselves to get with them in
real life. Why would they ever entertain a desperate 'follower'? You'll only stand a chance
if you're devastatingly handsome, obviously wealthy or more insta popular than they are.
You have a far better shot at a cold approach in your local park than trying to snag an Insta thot.
 

bmp2cpm

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Get out of your home and talk to people. Talk to anyone.

Get a circle of friends and girls will find you.

Stop spending time on endeavors that have a success probability of zero.
 

Young OG

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I've sent around 35 and got added by 26 women. I'll keep sending more requests. I'll keep sending everyday until 12 months.

I don't think saying 'hi' or 'hi, how is everything' is going to cut it.

I'm am being added by them. One of the group's some of the females an amusement park group.

How would you start off the conversation?
Unless you have a profile with thousands of followers and pics showing you doing tons of fun things, then forget about IG game.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ColdTony

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I used to DM insta chicks, avails nothing. I ended up dating a woman from Tinder briefly and one day we discovered one of my messages in her DMs from a year prior. She hasn’t even read it then but a year later was madly in love with me via a proper avenue.

Insta DMs are automatic lowering of your value imo.
 
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