"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to control yourself?

SilverProphet

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We all get emotional sometimes, say, act, text messenging something that we will regret later. At the heat of the moment, even we know it is something we shouldnt do, we still uncontrollably do it. I am a very impulsive person. Right now I feel like say something pointless to a girl I dated a while ago. HELP ME what should I do. Should I follow my heart at this moment or my brain.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lyamdb

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well you know you have to follow your brain not your heart!
But why do we get non-realistic emotions sometimes and do things we later regret? because our emotions aren't on the right path. we're insecure. our emotions are always repressed due to our lack of experience. the reason you want to send this message to that girl is probabely that you know you have fvcked up. now you want to fix it. maybe prove to her that you deserve more respect. and you just keep fvcking it up till the day she won't even respond to you. if you want to get rid of these emotional outbursts, the only way is to work on your skills and become a gathered, secure person. no short term solution is available. there's no simple trick to play at these moments. these moments' existance implies that something BIG must be done.
 

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dam I said something extremely lame to this girl today. I dont even like her. I think only reason I talk to her is because she rejects me now and my male ego cant accept that. In the end of day, I feel so ashamed and lost all the respects for myself. Well, I guess I just have to pretend it is just one of those day that you **** up hahahah. I had upper hand in this breakup and I just gave it away.
 

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Take a deep breath, count to 10, think about a better alternative.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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SilverProphet said:
We all get emotional sometimes, say, act, text messenging something that we will regret later. At the heat of the moment, even we know it is something we shouldnt do, we still uncontrollably do it. I am a very impulsive person. Right now I feel like say something pointless to a girl I dated a while ago. HELP ME what should I do. Should I follow my heart at this moment or my brain.
Learn patience. Guys typically want to react to situations as soon as they arise, bad move. Learn to sit, think and decide the best course of action instead of always following irrational emotions.
 

mrRuckus

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SilverProphet said:
At the heat of the moment, even we know it is something we shouldnt do, we still uncontrollably do it.
Uncontrollably?

Weak.
 
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