"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girl and u attracted to each other. We kind of split because she couldnt meet me in next 3 weeks, i said i didn't want just msn convos. she initated conversation the other day saying we aint spoke in ages, then again the other day but on facebook. I acted a bit cold and distant on both occasions. What do I do, I really like to get with this girl. Do i initate conversation or should she. Or leave it. i want to keep control, but I've got a hard time doing that without showing interest again
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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keep talking to her just not every day, spread it out and seem busy.. dont chat for long..

3 weeks isnt that long
 
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Just go looking for other girls, play the field.

But just keep her as an option, so the advice above is nothing but correct
 
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Yeah thats how i've been keepng it.

When i chatted to her last, she asked if i knew this girl. Only why should would of know is by talking to her about me. I said her i have her facebook msn and number, I haven't called or texted her, haven't spoke online since i got her number.( I have been busy and i never realyl catch her online lol)
So was like just like okay of both times she came up in the convo.

Shes like talks with loads of boys. She's bit complicated, when i caught her sad, emotional bit upset she seemed very honest, and was like i stick to one boy. But she does play around a bit on facebook with other boys. My plan is to simply meet her, keep her sweet, let my good looks, charm, sexuality win her over even more, then I just ask her out probably
 
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