"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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R1ch4rd

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Girl and u attracted to each other. We kind of split because she couldnt meet me in next 3 weeks, i said i didn't want just msn convos. she initated conversation the other day saying we aint spoke in ages, then again the other day but on facebook. I acted a bit cold and distant on both occasions. What do I do, I really like to get with this girl. Do i initate conversation or should she. Or leave it. i want to keep control, but I've got a hard time doing that without showing interest again
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nicelife

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keep talking to her just not every day, spread it out and seem busy.. dont chat for long..

3 weeks isnt that long
 

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Just go looking for other girls, play the field.

But just keep her as an option, so the advice above is nothing but correct
 

R1ch4rd

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Yeah thats how i've been keepng it.

When i chatted to her last, she asked if i knew this girl. Only why should would of know is by talking to her about me. I said her i have her facebook msn and number, I haven't called or texted her, haven't spoke online since i got her number.( I have been busy and i never realyl catch her online lol)
So was like just like okay of both times she came up in the convo.

Shes like talks with loads of boys. She's bit complicated, when i caught her sad, emotional bit upset she seemed very honest, and was like i stick to one boy. But she does play around a bit on facebook with other boys. My plan is to simply meet her, keep her sweet, let my good looks, charm, sexuality win her over even more, then I just ask her out probably
 
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