"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girl and u attracted to each other. We kind of split because she couldnt meet me in next 3 weeks, i said i didn't want just msn convos. she initated conversation the other day saying we aint spoke in ages, then again the other day but on facebook. I acted a bit cold and distant on both occasions. What do I do, I really like to get with this girl. Do i initate conversation or should she. Or leave it. i want to keep control, but I've got a hard time doing that without showing interest again
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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keep talking to her just not every day, spread it out and seem busy.. dont chat for long..

3 weeks isnt that long
 
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Just go looking for other girls, play the field.

But just keep her as an option, so the advice above is nothing but correct
 
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Yeah thats how i've been keepng it.

When i chatted to her last, she asked if i knew this girl. Only why should would of know is by talking to her about me. I said her i have her facebook msn and number, I haven't called or texted her, haven't spoke online since i got her number.( I have been busy and i never realyl catch her online lol)
So was like just like okay of both times she came up in the convo.

Shes like talks with loads of boys. She's bit complicated, when i caught her sad, emotional bit upset she seemed very honest, and was like i stick to one boy. But she does play around a bit on facebook with other boys. My plan is to simply meet her, keep her sweet, let my good looks, charm, sexuality win her over even more, then I just ask her out probably
 
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