"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to compete against other DJs?

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When I go out, I notice that about 20% of the people are complete AFCs, that 30% of them are jerks and that the rest
are what we call Don Juans,and do most of the things taught in this site naturally.So, most of the guys aren't shy at all.They all seem to be quite confident,do kino naturally,have a backbone, good conversation and seem fun to be around.
The problem is that the percentage of HBs isn't nearly as high and the competition is really tough.Moreover, tha "average" girls get more demanding than what they should be.
So the point is that everything taught in this site just make me average or slightly above average.
What can I do to stand from the crowd, how can I take my game to the next level?
Is at this point where looks are important?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Spain must be different than the US

From what I can tell, over here HBs are not as rare as real DJs. What you're referring to as "DJs" are what I'd call "good guys."

OK, enough semantics. Whatever the case, if your game is good, competition is simply not an issue. Make the DJ your friend, rather than someone you compete with.

Check this out. Disciple states it better than I can:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60870&highlight=his+kingdom
 

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Welcome, Marcus

The thread linked in the above post is a good place to start.

Just to save you some trouble, some definitions:

AFC = average frustrated chump

HB = hot babe

kino = touch (there's more to it, but read a bit in the DJ Bible and you should get the gist).
 

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Originally posted by Marcus
im new :D
LOL thanks i was reading a couple of threads and i was thinkin wtf does all these .......HB abd other letters mean ... i will check out the link..

leave some feedback in my thread too
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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