"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to compete against other DJs?

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When I go out, I notice that about 20% of the people are complete AFCs, that 30% of them are jerks and that the rest
are what we call Don Juans,and do most of the things taught in this site naturally.So, most of the guys aren't shy at all.They all seem to be quite confident,do kino naturally,have a backbone, good conversation and seem fun to be around.
The problem is that the percentage of HBs isn't nearly as high and the competition is really tough.Moreover, tha "average" girls get more demanding than what they should be.
So the point is that everything taught in this site just make me average or slightly above average.
What can I do to stand from the crowd, how can I take my game to the next level?
Is at this point where looks are important?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spain must be different than the US

From what I can tell, over here HBs are not as rare as real DJs. What you're referring to as "DJs" are what I'd call "good guys."

OK, enough semantics. Whatever the case, if your game is good, competition is simply not an issue. Make the DJ your friend, rather than someone you compete with.

Check this out. Disciple states it better than I can:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60870&highlight=his+kingdom
 

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Welcome, Marcus

The thread linked in the above post is a good place to start.

Just to save you some trouble, some definitions:

AFC = average frustrated chump

HB = hot babe

kino = touch (there's more to it, but read a bit in the DJ Bible and you should get the gist).
 

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Originally posted by Marcus
im new :D
LOL thanks i was reading a couple of threads and i was thinkin wtf does all these .......HB abd other letters mean ... i will check out the link..

leave some feedback in my thread too
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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