"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How to compete against other DJs?

dj_spain

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When I go out, I notice that about 20% of the people are complete AFCs, that 30% of them are jerks and that the rest
are what we call Don Juans,and do most of the things taught in this site naturally.So, most of the guys aren't shy at all.They all seem to be quite confident,do kino naturally,have a backbone, good conversation and seem fun to be around.
The problem is that the percentage of HBs isn't nearly as high and the competition is really tough.Moreover, tha "average" girls get more demanding than what they should be.
So the point is that everything taught in this site just make me average or slightly above average.
What can I do to stand from the crowd, how can I take my game to the next level?
Is at this point where looks are important?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bonhomme

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Spain must be different than the US

From what I can tell, over here HBs are not as rare as real DJs. What you're referring to as "DJs" are what I'd call "good guys."

OK, enough semantics. Whatever the case, if your game is good, competition is simply not an issue. Make the DJ your friend, rather than someone you compete with.

Check this out. Disciple states it better than I can:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=60870&highlight=his+kingdom
 

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Welcome, Marcus

The thread linked in the above post is a good place to start.

Just to save you some trouble, some definitions:

AFC = average frustrated chump

HB = hot babe

kino = touch (there's more to it, but read a bit in the DJ Bible and you should get the gist).
 

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Originally posted by Marcus
im new :D
LOL thanks i was reading a couple of threads and i was thinkin wtf does all these .......HB abd other letters mean ... i will check out the link..

leave some feedback in my thread too
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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