"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to # close on the bus?

Tyson420

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I'm fine anywhere else but for some reason this is the most difficult, they're either crowded and the only best way is when the HB is sitting beside or across from you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tyson420

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Thanks, yeah that girl reminds of this Chilean girl I know. All of those annoying analytical thoughts described in the video were in my head too whenever a chick was a train.

She's pretty hot. Both are, lol.
 

ENIGMA16

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Yeah the challenge here isn't getting a girl's number on the bus but basically more generally getting a girl's number in front of strangers. The added challenge is that nobody's talking and so they'll all be listening to you (if you're loud enough to hear). Although I've never tried for a number on the bus so I don't really know (but I have gotten numbers at bus stops, so it's close I guess haha).
 

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Make sure you have a business card or something along those lines ready, because I've had it happen that a girl had to get off the train REALLY quickly because we were so engaged in a conversation that she didn't hear it come up.

In those cases, smile, hand them the card or paper while saying "Hey, can I trust you that you'll call me if I give you this?". I tried that one last week on a girl from dancing classes(Saw her twice and danced with her a bit and got a good vibe from her), I snuck her the note and she called me the next day.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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