"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to # close on the bus?

Tyson420

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I'm fine anywhere else but for some reason this is the most difficult, they're either crowded and the only best way is when the HB is sitting beside or across from you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Tyson420

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Thanks, yeah that girl reminds of this Chilean girl I know. All of those annoying analytical thoughts described in the video were in my head too whenever a chick was a train.

She's pretty hot. Both are, lol.
 

ENIGMA16

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Yeah the challenge here isn't getting a girl's number on the bus but basically more generally getting a girl's number in front of strangers. The added challenge is that nobody's talking and so they'll all be listening to you (if you're loud enough to hear). Although I've never tried for a number on the bus so I don't really know (but I have gotten numbers at bus stops, so it's close I guess haha).
 

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Make sure you have a business card or something along those lines ready, because I've had it happen that a girl had to get off the train REALLY quickly because we were so engaged in a conversation that she didn't hear it come up.

In those cases, smile, hand them the card or paper while saying "Hey, can I trust you that you'll call me if I give you this?". I tried that one last week on a girl from dancing classes(Saw her twice and danced with her a bit and got a good vibe from her), I snuck her the note and she called me the next day.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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