"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to # close on the bus?

Tyson420

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I'm fine anywhere else but for some reason this is the most difficult, they're either crowded and the only best way is when the HB is sitting beside or across from you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tyson420

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Thanks, yeah that girl reminds of this Chilean girl I know. All of those annoying analytical thoughts described in the video were in my head too whenever a chick was a train.

She's pretty hot. Both are, lol.
 

ENIGMA16

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Yeah the challenge here isn't getting a girl's number on the bus but basically more generally getting a girl's number in front of strangers. The added challenge is that nobody's talking and so they'll all be listening to you (if you're loud enough to hear). Although I've never tried for a number on the bus so I don't really know (but I have gotten numbers at bus stops, so it's close I guess haha).
 

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Make sure you have a business card or something along those lines ready, because I've had it happen that a girl had to get off the train REALLY quickly because we were so engaged in a conversation that she didn't hear it come up.

In those cases, smile, hand them the card or paper while saying "Hey, can I trust you that you'll call me if I give you this?". I tried that one last week on a girl from dancing classes(Saw her twice and danced with her a bit and got a good vibe from her), I snuck her the note and she called me the next day.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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