"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to calculate body fat percentage

Donjuanpablo

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I've noticed that a lot of guys here know the amount of body fat that they have and I was wondering how do you calculate it? Can you do it by yourself or do you need someone else with special equipment to pinch your skin and do it? Back in High school i remember having it done, but i remember that the results were quite sketchy.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DIESEL

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I don't really worry about my bf% that much. I go by what I see in the mirror.

Basically, if I can't see a clearly defined six pack, then I know I still have some cutting/cardio to do. It's brutally simple.

From prior experience and having tested myself at various levels of bf, I can pretty much guesstimate where I am at.

Also keep in mind that most bf tests you get will have a margin of error of up to 3 percentage points.

The only truly accurate machines are only available in the sophisticated sports medicine labs and the tests run about 500 bucks a pop. They basically strip you naked and throw you inside a huge machine which then bombards you with energy and measures how much of that stuff bounces off your fat. It's very convoluted by 99% accurate.
 
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I have a Tanita scale, and Diesel is right, the results vary by time of day and hydration status.
 

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The tanita scale sucks for b/f but weighs like a champ. Mine says anything from 29 to 33%.

My calipers hit near 17.5 every time.

I need to get measured at the gym for objective comparison purposes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You can buy skin calipers for about 20-30 dollars, they are realtivily cheap. Or, you can do a tape measure test, to check your bodies density, but doing that will only give you an approximate guess. Theres scales that can measure your body, but how reliable they are, and cheap, is another question. There are many factors, that could screw up the measurments if you ahve someone not trained doing it for you. Your safest bet is to go to a gym and have it done by a trainer, they should be properly trained, when you sign up at a gym they usually break out the skin calipers, try seeing if they will do it for you for free. If your in college, usually they have them lying around the athletic training rooms, or exercise phys. labs, chances are would do it for you.
 
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