"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to calculate body fat percentage

Donjuanpablo

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I've noticed that a lot of guys here know the amount of body fat that they have and I was wondering how do you calculate it? Can you do it by yourself or do you need someone else with special equipment to pinch your skin and do it? Back in High school i remember having it done, but i remember that the results were quite sketchy.

Cheers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DIESEL

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I don't really worry about my bf% that much. I go by what I see in the mirror.

Basically, if I can't see a clearly defined six pack, then I know I still have some cutting/cardio to do. It's brutally simple.

From prior experience and having tested myself at various levels of bf, I can pretty much guesstimate where I am at.

Also keep in mind that most bf tests you get will have a margin of error of up to 3 percentage points.

The only truly accurate machines are only available in the sophisticated sports medicine labs and the tests run about 500 bucks a pop. They basically strip you naked and throw you inside a huge machine which then bombards you with energy and measures how much of that stuff bounces off your fat. It's very convoluted by 99% accurate.
 
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I have a Tanita scale, and Diesel is right, the results vary by time of day and hydration status.
 

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The tanita scale sucks for b/f but weighs like a champ. Mine says anything from 29 to 33%.

My calipers hit near 17.5 every time.

I need to get measured at the gym for objective comparison purposes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You can buy skin calipers for about 20-30 dollars, they are realtivily cheap. Or, you can do a tape measure test, to check your bodies density, but doing that will only give you an approximate guess. Theres scales that can measure your body, but how reliable they are, and cheap, is another question. There are many factors, that could screw up the measurments if you ahve someone not trained doing it for you. Your safest bet is to go to a gym and have it done by a trainer, they should be properly trained, when you sign up at a gym they usually break out the skin calipers, try seeing if they will do it for you for free. If your in college, usually they have them lying around the athletic training rooms, or exercise phys. labs, chances are would do it for you.
 
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