"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Bumble?

Von

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So I got a new phone, decided to download Bumble cause I heard it tells you were people you match are... well if they go to the same spot..

I selected the networking feature... took me 5 minutes to got through it all and have ''no more possible match''

So I decided to jump in the ''tinder style''.... oh boy... some many beauties and its never ending... it makes me wish I was single again for the hunt.... (I know I might get no results there).

Still, I saw 10 girls I knew lol.

Anyway, how do you use bumble to be efficient? What would you recommend?

I got my 2016 work pic and my bio: ''Passing by Bumble, looking amazing people''

Btw, Happy New Year
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Same as other OLD platforms.

Have good pics and a solid but short bio. The good thing about Bumble is the women have to message you first, eliminating wasted attention on chicks who have no interest to begin with.

Nice bio btw. I might steal that for a minute lol.
 

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Another poster mentioned a great bio that I stole, and it's great for getting girls to message. It goes:

"I got $20 for any girl who can come up with a profile that doesn't contain the words "travel," "yoga," or "not looking to hookup"

Girls love it because her first line is basically already created for her. Just don't use it if you live in my city as it has to be original haha
 
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