I dated this crazy ass girl that left the father of her son for me and then left me for a low life. Anyways I'm not fully over it as I really liked her but the world wont wait for me. I scheduled a date with a girl complete opposite to her. My ex was trashy, whorish, needy, uneducated, and has a terrible family. This girl is smart, higly independent, virgin, not very sexual, and very close to her family. However she did like me before and we would talk alot about sex on dates in the past. My ex is a solid 9. This girl is a 7.5. My exs sex game was a 10. Seriously out of this world to be honest lol. I want to work this new girl to the bedroom but don't know how bout doing that. She said she wants to be in love when she has sex and idk if I want that.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how to bring out the sexual side to a prudish woman
- Thread starter GeoMan
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Yeah, just run, that śhit is never worth it in the end. Prudes gonna be boring ass prudes. Find a chick that likes to have some sexy fun. Life's to short to coach a chick into not screaming when she sees a dîck.
JohnyTheArrow
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There is no such a thing like a prudish woman, there are only men who don't make her wet.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Never change your behavior to suit the values of a woman. Live by YOUR rules and the woman can either take it or leave it. No exceptions.
If this woman doesn't want to bone, then fine one who does. Simple as that.
Modern men make the dating game more complex than it needs to be because of this silly tendency to get oneitis.. which comes from elevating a particular woman beyond her true value. In the end, all women are basically the same.. so when you get oneitis you usually have a delusional and exaggerated view of this ONE woman.
If this woman doesn't want to bone, then fine one who does. Simple as that.
Modern men make the dating game more complex than it needs to be because of this silly tendency to get oneitis.. which comes from elevating a particular woman beyond her true value. In the end, all women are basically the same.. so when you get oneitis you usually have a delusional and exaggerated view of this ONE woman.