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Master Don Juan
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This man found out his fiancee was cheating, so he made a plan, and did it well...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How to break up with a cheating girlfriend
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It was his closing statement. His closure. His communication.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Might not look like it but her emotional scar will last a very long time.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i liked the sudden mood decrease on her face 'who the fuk is thomas roo'
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I prefer ghosting. I drop all communications. Done. That’s if you wanted exclusivity out of her and it was coherently implied.
Most effective means possible.
I’ve been with two women who laughed as they told me about how their ex called them heartless and evil. Lol
To cry or go into depression is caring about her. Flying off the handle is caring about her.
But if you feel nothing? Oh my. She applies it to her. She even thinks she’s nothing.
You must flourish and prosper. If she comes to you later on her knees or she feels nothing too...then all is well.
If she comes to you on her knees tell her to open her mouth and use her as a FB if you are able to do that. If not, you will have to tell her to stay away from you with zero emotion. You have to at least try to do that. You will get better at it in no time.
Most effective means possible.
I’ve been with two women who laughed as they told me about how their ex called them heartless and evil. Lol
To cry or go into depression is caring about her. Flying off the handle is caring about her.
But if you feel nothing? Oh my. She applies it to her. She even thinks she’s nothing.
You must flourish and prosper. If she comes to you later on her knees or she feels nothing too...then all is well.
If she comes to you on her knees tell her to open her mouth and use her as a FB if you are able to do that. If not, you will have to tell her to stay away from you with zero emotion. You have to at least try to do that. You will get better at it in no time.
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If you are a boyfriend then expect exclusivity. If you are spinning plates or are a plate...then you have no room to say a whole lot within this structure.
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Indeed it is. It’s takes a well put together man to see it.