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Master Don Juan
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This man found out his fiancee was cheating, so he made a plan, and did it well...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to break up with a cheating girlfriend
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- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It was his closing statement. His closure. His communication.
lamath
Master Don Juan
Might not look like it but her emotional scar will last a very long time.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
i liked the sudden mood decrease on her face 'who the fuk is thomas roo'
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I prefer ghosting. I drop all communications. Done. That’s if you wanted exclusivity out of her and it was coherently implied.
Most effective means possible.
I’ve been with two women who laughed as they told me about how their ex called them heartless and evil. Lol
To cry or go into depression is caring about her. Flying off the handle is caring about her.
But if you feel nothing? Oh my. She applies it to her. She even thinks she’s nothing.
You must flourish and prosper. If she comes to you later on her knees or she feels nothing too...then all is well.
If she comes to you on her knees tell her to open her mouth and use her as a FB if you are able to do that. If not, you will have to tell her to stay away from you with zero emotion. You have to at least try to do that. You will get better at it in no time.
Most effective means possible.
I’ve been with two women who laughed as they told me about how their ex called them heartless and evil. Lol
To cry or go into depression is caring about her. Flying off the handle is caring about her.
But if you feel nothing? Oh my. She applies it to her. She even thinks she’s nothing.
You must flourish and prosper. If she comes to you later on her knees or she feels nothing too...then all is well.
If she comes to you on her knees tell her to open her mouth and use her as a FB if you are able to do that. If not, you will have to tell her to stay away from you with zero emotion. You have to at least try to do that. You will get better at it in no time.
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If you are a boyfriend then expect exclusivity. If you are spinning plates or are a plate...then you have no room to say a whole lot within this structure.
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Indeed it is. It’s takes a well put together man to see it.