How to brake the Too Good Guy feel?

[niki18x5cm]

Recently I found this boeard, started reading and practicing from the Bible. Real Thing! It works with really lots of girls.

But, there is a challenge for the master DJs... I hope they help me in this...

All this works with girls that you just meet... Until recently I've always been the too good guy, that never screams, never gets angry and can stand everything...

I know that I have become or always have been too predicted, and boring... We are now temporarily separated with my girl...

OK, all this gold here works perfectly fine, when I use it on stranger girls, but as of now, nothing works with my girl!!! Whatever I do, I get "What is going on with you? Why are you behaving like this? What is wrong? Stop doing that. Why are you so strange?" and so on, and so on...

First, I want to change all this that I am, but how do I do it in regards to a girl, who has been with me for 8 years?

As we are separated right now, the current me obviously must change, but how do I do it, as she stops any different behaviour from me?

I want to renew the relationship, but the situation is quite different...

Any ideas?

 

[mrax]

I'm in a very similar situation. I hate to say it, but it doesn't look good for either of us. I'm trying to convince myself to cut all ties with my GF, and, as painful as it might sound, I think this is your best option.

We've got to move on, and no matter how hard it is, we've got to believe that there's someone better out there somewhere. This is our only hope as far as I can see.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

You're probably right. This is the kinda situation I was in last year at the tail end of my 7 year relationship. She already knew me as the chump. At that point it was too late to change, she didn't buy it. I was the supplicating chump and she controlled me. Nothing I could've done would fix that.

Ti zniash, moya brat? Razbirateh?

 

[niki18x5cm]

Yeah, I know this is a solution, but there must something to do, so that things change...

It would be stupid to have a dilema: 1/ become a DJ and break with her, 2/ stay stupid and be with her...

 

[MetalFortress]

First off, you don't need to be a yeller and screamer to be a guy who doesn't tolerate disrespect. You can be calm and do that too. Second, quit letting your girl control you, and do what YOU want on YOUR terms. Not on hers.