"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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people always say practice makes perfect.....BUT IN REALITY its PERFECT PRACTICE that reaps perfectoin.

Its not how much effort you put into practicing but HOW YOU PRACTICE.

any AFC can go for easy targets, amas a large sum of phone numbers, make out with a chic in under 3 minutes, even get laid if conditions are met.

the purpose of practicing is to PERFECT ones result. Before you reach the ultimate level of speed seduction you will have to have study, comprehend, field test and then enhance.

Perfect practice entails:specifics, challenging one self by attempting to overcome certain failure, details, going for the impossible and making it a reality. Its not just how much you practice but how you challenge yourself.

Asian americans have a word "KAIZEN"---incremental improvements for success.

This is a way of making something great THEN IMPROVING ON IT......not by just making obvious changes but pushing the envelope, risking rejection, trying something new, being creative, details, PAST MISTAKES, etc.

SO IMPROVE THE WAY YOU PRACTICE, challenge yourself beyond what normally would do, test yourself with others, think outside the box.

ONE MORE THING-you gotta be good in ALL AREA'S (online, in the field, durring the day in non pick-up atmospheres, at speed dating events, writing profiles/emails, on dates, etc).

Then once your there......WRITE A BOOK, DESIGN A COURSE AND TEACH....nuff said.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is a great post in TIPS about immersion.

I think when you talk about perfect practice you are describing practice where you are immersed.

The friends I jam with and I call it "feeling it." We all realised that you can only really learn a song when you "feel" it. Eventually we realised that "feeling it" is the fundamental of everything.

Anyway this post in tips calls the same concept immersion.

So when you practice and when you feel it then you improve. This simple law works in anything and it is a fact!

Nice post COD.

JJ
 
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