"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to beat high metabolism?

Not Quite There

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Basically, no matter how much i eat, i cannot put on weight!!! I eat more than my brother, but he weighs a stone more than me!


I think its something to do with when i was younger, i was veggie for years, and i think this somehow affected my metabolism.

But now i eat meat pretty often, and eat quite a lot of **** fatty food, but it doesnt do anything! I think i must have hollow legs!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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semag

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1) read the guide to bulking up.

2) Do what it says

3) the end.
 

PeeGee

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To be skinny, not fat, but not muscular? It's not exactly the best situation to be in.
 

Double

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i would kill whole villages to be in the situation of these millions of "unlucky" people. u think it's cool when you have to eat every hour huh.
 

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I've got an uber-fast metabolism and I'm more than happy with it. I, too, am vegetarian so that might have something to do with it, although I was like this even before going vegetarian so it's probably not related.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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slickjesse

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i totally know your problem. to gain weight ive been basically eating till i feel like i might throw up and then as soon as i think i could possibly eat more, i do. i did this for two months and one of my friends came up to me and asked me if i lost weight. that was pretty depressing. i think ive gained something like 3 pounds. no real point to my post other than saying your not alone with this problem.
 

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Originally posted by Not Quite There
no matter how much i eat
You state this as if it's a fact.

It's a simple thing really, your body burns more calories during the day than an average person's body. Eat 4000 calories (proper calories, read bulking guides) a day spread into 6 meals, if you don't gain weight eat 5000 calories and so on, eventually you'll hit the right amount.

Work your way up to that amount of calories or you'll feel overstuffed a lot. Your body will adapt to receiving inordinate amounts of food.
 

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Just eating like a cow won't give you the best results. BUILD MUSCLE. Adopt a good mass routine, purchase some whey, maybe add some creatine & glutamine, and hit the gym. The combination of lifting for mass (low reps, high weight, core lifts), high protein diet, good supplementation, and plenty of sleep will help you achieve your goal.
 

penkitten

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i have the same thing going on , but im a girl so i guess its ok
 

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you THINK you´re eating enough but you arent. I suggest go to the gym and eat like a mothafvcka. thats what Im doing(I also have high metabolism).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dude I had to eat 3500+ calories per day when I was smaller... 30 lbs later I needed close to 5000 calories per day to maintain my weight... it's not easy. I feel you :)
 
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