"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to be more sociable

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Jerry Maguire

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This site is good for giving improvement to people who suck with girls, or people who simply want to add to their game.
But for me, I don't even have a game, I just ignore them all because I feel afraid or awkward talking to them.
Because of my personality, and that I just left school, I don't get the chance to even meet much people anymore, except from at the gym.

How would you guys get over this? Go to a psychologist and seek help for my sociophobia? Or can any of you relate to this situation/give me advice. What's worked for you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I can relate.

I think you need to get a change of scenery. Move somewhere or get a job that puts you with people.
 
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Do the bootcamp. Even if you get no ass, then at least your shyness problem won't be as bad. In fact after a few weeks your shyness problem will probably go away altogether.
 
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