"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to be more sociable

Jerry Maguire

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This site is good for giving improvement to people who suck with girls, or people who simply want to add to their game.
But for me, I don't even have a game, I just ignore them all because I feel afraid or awkward talking to them.
Because of my personality, and that I just left school, I don't get the chance to even meet much people anymore, except from at the gym.

How would you guys get over this? Go to a psychologist and seek help for my sociophobia? Or can any of you relate to this situation/give me advice. What's worked for you?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One on One

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I can relate.

I think you need to get a change of scenery. Move somewhere or get a job that puts you with people.
 

Caldus

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Do the bootcamp. Even if you get no ass, then at least your shyness problem won't be as bad. In fact after a few weeks your shyness problem will probably go away altogether.
 
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