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This is a good thread
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is exactly what I used to think before I discovered game. Ok, so you're right that female "game" consists (almost) exclusively of looks, whereas us guys have to be the full package. But that point you're missing is this: as men we are able to work on the things that make us attractive to women (looks, game, finances/ career, confidence, social skills, humour etc), whilst women's attractiveness is almost solely a product of genes, diet, and a (un)healthy lifestyle. Through our actions, we men are able to control how attractive we appear to the opposite sex to a far greater degree than women, who are (largely) helpless in this regard. Plus, the same attributes that make us successful with women make us successful at life as a whole! I think it's the women who should be hating on us.playergamehater said:thats what I hate, for men to be successful with women they have to be perfect everything just like initiatorhater says, but for women they just have to be perfect in the looks department
I'm not perfect in anything and I get women.:kick: What are you talking about?playergamehater said:thats what I hate, for men to be successful with women they have to be perfect everything just like initiatorhater says, but for women they just have to be perfect in the looks department
Still, it's more work for men, women however they can take charge and initiate and they are more likely to get what they want in lifeOnTheWayUp said:This is exactly what I used to think before I discovered game. Ok, so you're right that female "game" consists (almost) exclusively of looks, whereas us guys have to be the full package. But that point you're missing is this: as men we are able to work on the things that make us attractive to women (looks, game, finances/ career, confidence, social skills, humour etc), whilst women's attractiveness is almost solely a product of genes, diet, and a (un)healthy lifestyle. Through our actions, we men are able to control how attractive we appear to the opposite sex to a far greater degree than women, who are (largely) helpless in this regard. Plus, the same attributes that make us successful with women make us successful at life as a whole! I think it's the women who should be hating on us.![]()
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
playergamehater said:Still, it's more work for men, women however they can take charge and initiate and they are more likely to get what they want in life