"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to be manly?

slaog

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Real man = masculine man

Women need a man to bring out their feminine side and only masculine men can do this. By being masculine you'll make the woman feel more feminine and it's what all women want deep down.

Masculine women and feminine men attract each other also. You know the relationships where the women are the boss and the "men" do as they're told.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Chipleader

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You need to be the Ying for her Yang. It really is that simple.
 

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obviously you are offended because i used your "advice" as bad advice
Dude, I've been told a lot worse stuff than that!

To clarify:

excuse me whats the time"
"oh its 10:1..."
then i would cut her short and say
"to be honest i approached you because i thought you were cute" and smile
"my name is...."
Useful

being a man is about being your best self. its about being comfortable in your own skin, its about setting goals, and achieving them, its about sticking to your morals and values. its about creating your own world and your own reality.
Not useful. While this is technically true, it's basically some vague chop-and-shop that won't help a noob at all (no pun intended :p)

Forgive me if my wording can seem a bit harsh, as I am sick of KBJ's (obviously not you) with no real experience or credentials trying to sound cool. It really is the blind leading the blind on this site many times.

Oh, and for the record, you shouldn't get offended so easily dude. BUT I understand, you ARE from the UK. (Burn!) Just messin wit cha, chill out.
 

Warrior74

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BATH.

IN.

BRUTE.

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Seriously....who cares about being manly? Like what? Becoming a lumberjack manly? Or just not being Ryan Seacrest manly? I think you would just prefer not being metrosexual..I think you can handle that on your own.

Lift weights. Exercise. Do things you liked doing as a kid...if you played sports get back into it. Try martial arts. Learn to change your own oil. Fix a car. Some people define their manhood by doing things. So get off the computer and actually physically do something.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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