"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to be manly?

slaog

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Real man = masculine man

Women need a man to bring out their feminine side and only masculine men can do this. By being masculine you'll make the woman feel more feminine and it's what all women want deep down.

Masculine women and feminine men attract each other also. You know the relationships where the women are the boss and the "men" do as they're told.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chipleader

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You need to be the Ying for her Yang. It really is that simple.
 

Rex Man

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obviously you are offended because i used your "advice" as bad advice
Dude, I've been told a lot worse stuff than that!

To clarify:

excuse me whats the time"
"oh its 10:1..."
then i would cut her short and say
"to be honest i approached you because i thought you were cute" and smile
"my name is...."
Useful

being a man is about being your best self. its about being comfortable in your own skin, its about setting goals, and achieving them, its about sticking to your morals and values. its about creating your own world and your own reality.
Not useful. While this is technically true, it's basically some vague chop-and-shop that won't help a noob at all (no pun intended :p)

Forgive me if my wording can seem a bit harsh, as I am sick of KBJ's (obviously not you) with no real experience or credentials trying to sound cool. It really is the blind leading the blind on this site many times.

Oh, and for the record, you shouldn't get offended so easily dude. BUT I understand, you ARE from the UK. (Burn!) Just messin wit cha, chill out.
 

Warrior74

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BATH.

IN.

BRUTE.

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Seriously....who cares about being manly? Like what? Becoming a lumberjack manly? Or just not being Ryan Seacrest manly? I think you would just prefer not being metrosexual..I think you can handle that on your own.

Lift weights. Exercise. Do things you liked doing as a kid...if you played sports get back into it. Try martial arts. Learn to change your own oil. Fix a car. Some people define their manhood by doing things. So get off the computer and actually physically do something.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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