"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to 'be funny'

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I first read this article from the DJ Boot Camp. Here ya go: https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/hall193.htm

Here's a thread I posted on developing wit some time back and a lot of the responses in it mirror the advice from that article.

You already have a sense of humor, you just need to let it out. Listen to funny stuff and your humor will 'awaken' as the article mentions. Be your 'unfiltered' self, is some advice I got earlier today. It works quite well in this context too.

Earlier today, I was talking to this girl I just met and I was having a great time and so was she. I wasn't worried about entertaining her, I was focused on saying whatever I wanted to say and entertaining myself. She just so happened to like it.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Earlier today, I was talking to this girl I just met and I was having a great time and so was she. I wasn't worried about entertaining her, I was focused on saying whatever I wanted to say and entertaining myself. She just so happened to like it.
What did you tell her to escalate? What was asked or told to make her have sex with you?
 

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What I should have said...

Mike: Yeah you’re terrible. I’m just trying to eat here. Instead I get attack of the straws! <Smile>
Wait until she is almost done picking them up, grab the final one, and say loudly, "This is the last straw! The last straw!" That is an example of a typical joke in my life that I am the only one who gets.

When I get a beer with a lot of foam on top, I like to complain that every time I come to this place, the waitress gives me head. Every time! I am so sick of it....
 
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