mahon83050
Banned
As we all know confidence and looks are the key to getting that chick you want. The girl has to be attracted to you physically or all the confidence in the world does not mean squat.
I think a great confidence booster is taking pride in something that you are better at then others. It might sound arrogant, but I think it works.
For example, I consider myself more cultured, historically knowledgable and more sophisiticated than most guys. Is being sophisticated a great thing and do all guys think being sophisticated as their goal? No, probably not, and alot probably do not care. The point is, it is important to me and I take pride in that. It does not have to be sophisitication, it could be anything. For example........
You are a good artist or computer programmer...better than the average person.....
You Know more about chemistry and engineering than most
You Can speak 2 foreign languages
You have better athletic ability than most.
You Ran the Boston Marathon (or any marathon)
You Can run the mile in under 5 minutes.
Take pride in something that you have accomplished or a trait that you think is something to be proud of. It does not matter if most people think what you are proud of or what you can do is meaningless. What matter is how YOU see it. Knowing that I am or atleast, thinking I am more sophisticated than most others, makes me feel confident inside. Use this confidence to help you score chicks and succeed in other parts of life. It could be anything even though it sounds arrogant in a way, I think it will help with a positive attitude.
I think a great confidence booster is taking pride in something that you are better at then others. It might sound arrogant, but I think it works.
For example, I consider myself more cultured, historically knowledgable and more sophisiticated than most guys. Is being sophisticated a great thing and do all guys think being sophisticated as their goal? No, probably not, and alot probably do not care. The point is, it is important to me and I take pride in that. It does not have to be sophisitication, it could be anything. For example........
You are a good artist or computer programmer...better than the average person.....
You Know more about chemistry and engineering than most
You Can speak 2 foreign languages
You have better athletic ability than most.
You Ran the Boston Marathon (or any marathon)
You Can run the mile in under 5 minutes.
Take pride in something that you have accomplished or a trait that you think is something to be proud of. It does not matter if most people think what you are proud of or what you can do is meaningless. What matter is how YOU see it. Knowing that I am or atleast, thinking I am more sophisticated than most others, makes me feel confident inside. Use this confidence to help you score chicks and succeed in other parts of life. It could be anything even though it sounds arrogant in a way, I think it will help with a positive attitude.