How to be a Wingman?

[toma]

Hi. I've been a lurker here for a while, but this site has really helped me improve myself. I've been going out with a friend of mine lately, and I was wondering how I can be a better wingman. Any tips? Thanks.

 

[Crayon]

Nothing to add here, except that i'm really interested in this as well!!! My own game is OK, but i want to be able to help my friends better.

 

[Snow Plowman]

If you mean help him get a girl...

- Manage the obstacles
- Hype up you're friend (Yes you can brag about you're friend)
- Have fun together (Girl's love seeing guys and there friends having fun)
- Share stories that have to do with you're friend in it

 

[Azmodan]

I'm not an expert with women, but I am nearly fearless, so this is how I be a wingman: I go break the ice with large groups of women and get my friends invited to sit with them.

For instance, if you're at a bar with a couple friends and there's 3 girls sitting at a table with a few spare chairs, I'll go up and talk to them for about 5 minutes and say something like "well, nice meetin' yall, I got to get back to my friends... unless you want some more company?"

Usually I get a positive response.

 

[toma]

Thanks. I'll try those today. I'll keep you updated.

 

[toma]

So here's what happened tonight.

My friend, Johnny, and I went to see the fireworks. I live in St. Louis, so we went to the riverfront, and the place was basically packed. There was a concert (Cindy Lauber), but we thought it better to meet random chicks sitting in the plaza.

Getting invitations for friends is a very good way to socialize, and it works well to be able to bring the conversation over to them and make them the center of attention. I got Johnny in the middle of a group of six and a group of three; he liked it.:yes:

Another thing I improved on is isolation. We normally try to isolate directly, but I found a good thing about wingmen is that we can isolate for our friends. Twice, I was able to separate three or four girls from Johnny and his women.

Johnny got a few #s, but wasn't really interested in anyone, but I met this really, really hot chick, (maybe 9.5) and kiss and #closed:rockon:. It was a pretty good night. The fireworks were very cool.