Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Or maybe having a life is the way to be happy and fulfilled?Having a LIFE is always an excuse.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hahaha...ultrashogun said:Anyway your nothing but a liar and a deceptive, spineless assh0le.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GinuwineXXX said:Why should I limit myself to just one girl? Because most people do it or it is the right thing to do.
Fvck that and your morals I am gonna be a legend when all of this sh!T is said and done. I am young and I am trying to have fun I don't care if you think it's wrong.
It's like me saying bust.it why would you just want to be in a LTR and not in a MLTR. But I don't because it's your life just like this is mine. I do whatever make ME happy and I don't care if other people don't agree.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby said- Why be in a MLTR and not just date girls?
The reason I have found being in a MLTR better than just dating girls. Is if you just go on dates with girls ever now and again it would be hard to pull off what I do.
What I do is I can call the four girls I am in a relationship with and go to the movies with them. Chill with them and fvck them. It's better than having fvck buddies.
I am just playing by the rules women have set. In my past I have had fvck buddies but after sex a few times they want to be my girl. And I wasn't with that so it ended the wrong way.
If you are just going on dates with girls it would be harder to get puzzy whenever you wanted. Also you are keeping them off of the market so nobody else can hookup with them. So that you know they will be there for you whenever you need them.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
not no offend you but you are a chump, she should never know what you are doingomgwtfm8 said:Does any of these chicks call yourself boyfriend/girlfriend?
Usually I'll know what my girlfriend is doing 24/7 and she'll know what i'm doing 24/7. I would feel guilty living a life of all these lies.