I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Or maybe having a life is the way to be happy and fulfilled?Having a LIFE is always an excuse.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hahaha...ultrashogun said:Anyway your nothing but a liar and a deceptive, spineless assh0le.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
GinuwineXXX said:Why should I limit myself to just one girl? Because most people do it or it is the right thing to do.
Fvck that and your morals I am gonna be a legend when all of this sh!T is said and done. I am young and I am trying to have fun I don't care if you think it's wrong.
It's like me saying bust.it why would you just want to be in a LTR and not in a MLTR. But I don't because it's your life just like this is mine. I do whatever make ME happy and I don't care if other people don't agree.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby said- Why be in a MLTR and not just date girls?
The reason I have found being in a MLTR better than just dating girls. Is if you just go on dates with girls ever now and again it would be hard to pull off what I do.
What I do is I can call the four girls I am in a relationship with and go to the movies with them. Chill with them and fvck them. It's better than having fvck buddies.
I am just playing by the rules women have set. In my past I have had fvck buddies but after sex a few times they want to be my girl. And I wasn't with that so it ended the wrong way.
If you are just going on dates with girls it would be harder to get puzzy whenever you wanted. Also you are keeping them off of the market so nobody else can hookup with them. So that you know they will be there for you whenever you need them.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
not no offend you but you are a chump, she should never know what you are doingomgwtfm8 said:Does any of these chicks call yourself boyfriend/girlfriend?
Usually I'll know what my girlfriend is doing 24/7 and she'll know what i'm doing 24/7. I would feel guilty living a life of all these lies.