"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to be a good kisser?

xomel

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im a bad kisser i heard. i want to change. anyone have any recommended reading from the dj bible? an article off sosuave? an article off fastseduction or something.

what tips and techniques do you have to share?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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gav

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yep, plenty of posts on it

try putting your tongue in to start then withdraw it back into your own mouth so she follows you; judge her IL with that
 

xomel

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okay so yet i proved even further to my self that you get more answers by acting rather than by asking on sosuave discussion boards.

the night went great. it didnt come to much help, what helped is when i asked her how it was and she said "you use too much tongue" and i said "you slober too much" it was so nice. what helped is keep your hands moving. i love sosuave! i got a girl and i owe it to sosuave! if you fvckers were here in person id suck all of your ****s!!! haha just kidding.

my advice:

keep your hands moving
dont use too little or too much tongue
fvcking stop asking pointless questions on the board.
let it come natural you will find out what she likes and she will find out waht you like.
 

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you asked her how it was? i recommend you never do that again
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when you put your penis in her, remember to ask her "how was it" so she can tell you how soft and small you are.
 
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