okay so yet i proved even further to my self that you get more answers by acting rather than by asking on sosuave discussion boards.
the night went great. it didnt come to much help, what helped is when i asked her how it was and she said "you use too much tongue" and i said "you slober too much" it was so nice. what helped is keep your hands moving. i love sosuave! i got a girl and i owe it to sosuave! if you fvckers were here in person id suck all of your ****s!!! haha just kidding.
my advice:
keep your hands moving
dont use too little or too much tongue
fvcking stop asking pointless questions on the board.
let it come natural you will find out what she likes and she will find out waht you like.