You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm Charming said:What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
Whats wrong with it.. what justiceseeker said and also it's basically women saying they're going to lie to men to get money off them. Fraud is another name for it if I'm not mistaken.I'm Charming said:What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe not, but you're comparing women trying to fraud men out of money, to guys trying to get laid. That's a stupid comparison. Women use their sexuality to get things from men, men usually are too stupid to trick women out of their *****. And believe me, she only gives it up if she wants to, they're far more sophisticated and devious than you'll ever know.I'm Charming said:I am far from a supplicating pus5y sir, I assure you, but if women want to shag old wrinkly's for big bucks, please let them, its not stopping me from getting any.
At least prostitutes are upfront about what they're after. There's no pretense when it comes to them. You're actually missing my point. Women have become DISEASED by modern society. They act like men, but want to be treated like ladies. If this were a video about younger guys conning older women out of their money, I bet you wouldn't be so happy about it. There's no integrity, there's no character, there's no feelings, they're just mercenaries.I'm Charming said:At the end of the day it's all about assets, goldigger wants wrinkly's money asset, wrinkly wants goldiggers sex asset.
It's a tradeoff, it's just prostitution on another level basically, if wrinkly is not aware of why he is getting 18 year old babes and no other 78 year old is then he deserves to be conned.
Even if he is conned its usually after he's gone anyway, he's had what he wants, who's going to lose out? The spoilt upper class grandchildren?
Ha. The argument you are making is like saying prostitution is immoral? Maybe, but who gives a sh!t.
I'm Charming said:In all honesty, I wouldn't care, manipulation is part of the human condition.
You're beef here seems to be that people are getting manipulated for fiscal gain. This apparently is a "Disease".
Have you never watched American idol? Retards get manipulated for monetary gain all the time, and people laugh at it.
You spread this all on the backs of women, I have seen as many men manipulate others, make fun of retards and fools, you think you can stop that by shouting out about it on an internet forum? Who do you think you are? Jesus?
Next you'll be telling me you want world peace and that it is wrong that it has not happened, talk about stating the obvious, it's a nice imaginary concept but in reality its unachievable.
Bottom line is people are manipulated on a daily basis, you work for someone for money don't you? They manipulate you by offering money to do something that they don't want to do. That's life.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
http://aliasclio.blogspot.com/2008/07/heartbreakers-5-gold-digger.htmlThe gold-digger is feared by women and, like Becky and Scarlett, does not have many female friends. She can provoke a particularly sharp resentment among men because she talks love and thinks money, as Rhett says of Scarlett in Gone With the Wind. In fact, the chief characteristic of this type of female heartbreaker is her ruthlessness in pursuit of what she wants. She has to be careful not to fall in love, because it would cloud her judgment and because the type of man she requires is likely to be frightened by displays of emotional desperation and put off by neediness. Meanwhile, as she searches out the man who has most to offer her, she may leave a trail of broken hearts in her wake.
Yeah, look at this site. Everybody just wants to know how to get the young hot women, mostly just to use them for sex. No one cares about what sort of person is underneath, or if an ugly girl is "nice", they just have to have the hot exterior. Is that so different from the golddiggers?What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
My responses in boldTeflon_Mcgee said:Why are you even concerned about this?
Why aren't you?
Golddiggers are great because they make it so all a man has to do to get a HOT woman is make a little money.
Prostitutes have been around for a long time, too
It's basically hard to turn yourself handsome if you are ugly,
False, I go to the gym. Try putting in the hard work
and change your fundamental personality if it sucks (or is not good for getting women),
Again, try putting in ACTUAL WORK and TALKING TO PEOPLE. I did it
but ANY man (in most countries at least) can become wealthy.
Just cause you are dangling the carrot doesn't mean you gotta give them a bite. Get what you want from them and play their game with your rules.
Just don't be dumb. Problem solved.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Teflon_Mcgee said:Why are you even concerned about this?
Golddiggers are great because they make it so all a man has to do to get a HOT woman is make a little money.
zekko said:Yeah, look at this site. Everybody just wants to know how to get the young hot women, mostly just to use them for sex. No one cares about what sort of person is underneath, or if an ugly girl is "nice", they just have to have the hot exterior. Is that so different from the golddiggers?
Okay, let me explain this in really simple terms.Originally Posted by Teflon_Mcgee
Why are you even concerned about this?
HolyG said:Why aren't you?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.