You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm Charming said:What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
Whats wrong with it.. what justiceseeker said and also it's basically women saying they're going to lie to men to get money off them. Fraud is another name for it if I'm not mistaken.I'm Charming said:What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maybe not, but you're comparing women trying to fraud men out of money, to guys trying to get laid. That's a stupid comparison. Women use their sexuality to get things from men, men usually are too stupid to trick women out of their *****. And believe me, she only gives it up if she wants to, they're far more sophisticated and devious than you'll ever know.I'm Charming said:I am far from a supplicating pus5y sir, I assure you, but if women want to shag old wrinkly's for big bucks, please let them, its not stopping me from getting any.
At least prostitutes are upfront about what they're after. There's no pretense when it comes to them. You're actually missing my point. Women have become DISEASED by modern society. They act like men, but want to be treated like ladies. If this were a video about younger guys conning older women out of their money, I bet you wouldn't be so happy about it. There's no integrity, there's no character, there's no feelings, they're just mercenaries.I'm Charming said:At the end of the day it's all about assets, goldigger wants wrinkly's money asset, wrinkly wants goldiggers sex asset.
It's a tradeoff, it's just prostitution on another level basically, if wrinkly is not aware of why he is getting 18 year old babes and no other 78 year old is then he deserves to be conned.
Even if he is conned its usually after he's gone anyway, he's had what he wants, who's going to lose out? The spoilt upper class grandchildren?
Ha. The argument you are making is like saying prostitution is immoral? Maybe, but who gives a sh!t.
I'm Charming said:In all honesty, I wouldn't care, manipulation is part of the human condition.
You're beef here seems to be that people are getting manipulated for fiscal gain. This apparently is a "Disease".
Have you never watched American idol? Retards get manipulated for monetary gain all the time, and people laugh at it.
You spread this all on the backs of women, I have seen as many men manipulate others, make fun of retards and fools, you think you can stop that by shouting out about it on an internet forum? Who do you think you are? Jesus?
Next you'll be telling me you want world peace and that it is wrong that it has not happened, talk about stating the obvious, it's a nice imaginary concept but in reality its unachievable.
Bottom line is people are manipulated on a daily basis, you work for someone for money don't you? They manipulate you by offering money to do something that they don't want to do. That's life.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://aliasclio.blogspot.com/2008/07/heartbreakers-5-gold-digger.htmlThe gold-digger is feared by women and, like Becky and Scarlett, does not have many female friends. She can provoke a particularly sharp resentment among men because she talks love and thinks money, as Rhett says of Scarlett in Gone With the Wind. In fact, the chief characteristic of this type of female heartbreaker is her ruthlessness in pursuit of what she wants. She has to be careful not to fall in love, because it would cloud her judgment and because the type of man she requires is likely to be frightened by displays of emotional desperation and put off by neediness. Meanwhile, as she searches out the man who has most to offer her, she may leave a trail of broken hearts in her wake.
Yeah, look at this site. Everybody just wants to know how to get the young hot women, mostly just to use them for sex. No one cares about what sort of person is underneath, or if an ugly girl is "nice", they just have to have the hot exterior. Is that so different from the golddiggers?What exactly is the matter with this?
They want money, they're being taught to get what they want.
We want women, on this site we're being taught to get what we want.
My responses in boldTeflon_Mcgee said:Why are you even concerned about this?
Why aren't you?
Golddiggers are great because they make it so all a man has to do to get a HOT woman is make a little money.
Prostitutes have been around for a long time, too
It's basically hard to turn yourself handsome if you are ugly,
False, I go to the gym. Try putting in the hard work
and change your fundamental personality if it sucks (or is not good for getting women),
Again, try putting in ACTUAL WORK and TALKING TO PEOPLE. I did it
but ANY man (in most countries at least) can become wealthy.
Just cause you are dangling the carrot doesn't mean you gotta give them a bite. Get what you want from them and play their game with your rules.
Just don't be dumb. Problem solved.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Teflon_Mcgee said:Why are you even concerned about this?
Golddiggers are great because they make it so all a man has to do to get a HOT woman is make a little money.
zekko said:Yeah, look at this site. Everybody just wants to know how to get the young hot women, mostly just to use them for sex. No one cares about what sort of person is underneath, or if an ugly girl is "nice", they just have to have the hot exterior. Is that so different from the golddiggers?
Okay, let me explain this in really simple terms.Originally Posted by Teflon_Mcgee
Why are you even concerned about this?
HolyG said:Why aren't you?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.