So adopting a IDGAF attitude is the true and only way to retain pure alpha behavior mindset and happiness.
After having loved and lost twice, I came to some realizations. Prior to these 2 loves I was a bachelor playboy for many years, thanks to the DJ mentality and sosuave.
My point is, back then my attitude towards all females was "when your not around me, i dont give a FUK what you do, PERIOD". I had ZERO attachments to these women. I was spinning plates left and right. I built a connection with them but it was a different type of bond. I was a seducer and It was a sexual one and similar to corey waynes saying "hang out, have fun, and hook up!". Which is what I was doing exactly. I kept things lighthearted always and sexual as well and these chicks LOVED IT.
I was living my own life, going out, working, lifting, self improving and just living day to day. These chicks I had them spread all over the city and they lived their own lives too. There was no need to meet families or talk about our relationship status or any of that BS I rarely met their friends if ever at all. I never asked about other guys or even cared at all.
I think when you guys start caring too much and getting emotionally attached and treating a chick like a possession you end up hurt, always.
So to summarize, dont catch feelings for these females. And to be honest its really not that hard. Guys who fall in love do it out of desperation mostly, scarcity.
Be that guy who girls go to when they need to escape from the world. I remember my apartment being like a sanctuary for these chicks. I was that guy in the city who they would go see, the single unattainable bachelor who made them feel the tingles. I would literally bang these chicks like I loved them, I would treat them so dearly and just build the strongest connections, really taking them under my wings and they would submit fully. Our time together...maybe 2-4 hours depending...some drinks, then smash for a a couple hours. They NEVER slept over. Then when our time was done, we went our seperate ways and she would leave eagerly anticipating... until next time. My mind would be on more chicks and ass and her mind would be on me and it was a self fulfilling prophecy.
You dont need to commit to these chicks.
After having loved and lost twice, I came to some realizations. Prior to these 2 loves I was a bachelor playboy for many years, thanks to the DJ mentality and sosuave.
My point is, back then my attitude towards all females was "when your not around me, i dont give a FUK what you do, PERIOD". I had ZERO attachments to these women. I was spinning plates left and right. I built a connection with them but it was a different type of bond. I was a seducer and It was a sexual one and similar to corey waynes saying "hang out, have fun, and hook up!". Which is what I was doing exactly. I kept things lighthearted always and sexual as well and these chicks LOVED IT.
I was living my own life, going out, working, lifting, self improving and just living day to day. These chicks I had them spread all over the city and they lived their own lives too. There was no need to meet families or talk about our relationship status or any of that BS I rarely met their friends if ever at all. I never asked about other guys or even cared at all.
I think when you guys start caring too much and getting emotionally attached and treating a chick like a possession you end up hurt, always.
So to summarize, dont catch feelings for these females. And to be honest its really not that hard. Guys who fall in love do it out of desperation mostly, scarcity.
Be that guy who girls go to when they need to escape from the world. I remember my apartment being like a sanctuary for these chicks. I was that guy in the city who they would go see, the single unattainable bachelor who made them feel the tingles. I would literally bang these chicks like I loved them, I would treat them so dearly and just build the strongest connections, really taking them under my wings and they would submit fully. Our time together...maybe 2-4 hours depending...some drinks, then smash for a a couple hours. They NEVER slept over. Then when our time was done, we went our seperate ways and she would leave eagerly anticipating... until next time. My mind would be on more chicks and ass and her mind would be on me and it was a self fulfilling prophecy.
You dont need to commit to these chicks.
