Say you've been seeing this girl, or talking to her or whatever and things SEEM like they're going fine. She seems to have interest, etc. Then all of a sudden out of nowhere she ends up in a relationship with some other dude you had no clue about. She didn't give you any reason to think you were competing with someone else (if I knew this I wouldn't even bother) and she shows all the signs of being interested in you. This has been happening to me off and on for years and I've always felt like an idiot afterwards. The funny thing is most of the time these guys they jump into relationships with out of nowhere never seem to last longer then a month or two if that.
