Say you've been seeing this girl, or talking to her or whatever and things SEEM like they're going fine. She seems to have interest, etc. Then all of a sudden out of nowhere she ends up in a relationship with some other dude you had no clue about. She didn't give you any reason to think you were competing with someone else (if I knew this I wouldn't even bother) and she shows all the signs of being interested in you. This has been happening to me off and on for years and I've always felt like an idiot afterwards. The funny thing is most of the time these guys they jump into relationships with out of nowhere never seem to last longer then a month or two if that.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How to avoid this?
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Not much you can do about that. I've had it happen to me. Girls are selfish and will date 2,3,4 guys at once until they decide which one suits them best, then drop the others or downgrade them to orbit land. But then you drop her and refuse to be an orbiter.